So, we’ve educated ourselves on rape statistics and learned more about rape culture. But what do we do if someone we know (and love) come to us to disclose their trauma? What can we expect? How can we help? Furthermore, how can we avoid hurting the person who is already in a world of hurt? This week’s post is pretty straightforward: common reactions you might see, what is helpful, and what is definitely not helpful/possibly even more traumatizing. (more…)
Rape culture is a scary, pervasive attitude within society that is continues to thrive and persist because most of society is convinced it does not exist. There are many great definitions of rape culture written beautifully by other bloggers and writers. What it comes down to is the normalization or expectation for sexual violence, ranging from catcalling to rape. Men are allowed, socialized, and encouraged to be aggressive. Because sexual violence is a fact of life, women are expected to do everything in their power to prevent said rape from occurring. (more…)
With April being Sexual Assault Awareness Month, I thought I’d take the next few weeks to discuss different aspects of this topic from statistics to rape culture to support. Sexual assault has recently (as in the last year or two) made national news in the context of high schools and colleges. However, sexual assault can occur anywhere– in your homes, your workplaces, and your churches. Sexual assault happens every 2 minutes in the United States. Even if you haven’t experienced sexual assault or think that you know someone who has, chances are pretty good that you do know someone who has had their lives turned upside down by sexual assault.
I don’t know about you, but sometimes I get this intense urge to bake cookies. Images of mixing chocolate chunks into cookie dough, dropping rounded dough on parchment paper, and pulling out warm delicious cookies play through my mind until I must. bake. cookies. Arrrghh… cookie making monster…. (more…)
I’m not much of a photography person and I knew that when I started this blog, I’d have to figure out a way to remedy that. Slowly, slooowly I’m figuring out tips and tricks that have helped my photography skills improve, mostly due to Pinch of Yum’s tips and blog posts. It’s amazing what a sheet of foil, a white board, some extra loose ingredients, or a dish towel can do for a shot. However, lighting is one of those things that don’t handily go away. Even when light is good, its not always steady or consistent. Or you have window blinds in the way. Or light is in the wrong place for where you want to shoot. (more…)
First off, Bones is back tonight! After three months off, its been more than time for it to return. HTGAWM finished their season! I <3 Bones and have been with the series (book and TV) all the way. I know its been on forever, but I like that my fictional friends stick around. Sometimes longer than people in real life, esp since I move alot. They provide a consistency for me. 😛 Thank you, Kathy Reichs! (more…)
Although I enjoy a fancy, pretty, photogenic meal once in a while, what makes me feel at home is a warm bowl of yum that can feed a bunch of people. Its even better when you can make it all in one pot- those are the best!
The University of Washington is one of the world’s most beautiful college campuses. No, seriously, it’s made lists of the prettiest campuses. On this list of the top 20 most beautiful, dear UW is #10. On this list of the 14 most beautiful quads, the cherry blossoms that bloom every finals week is what puts UW on the map. (more…)
I’ll confess: today’s post was a spontaneous I-saw-it-on-my-Instagram-feed-and-had-to-make-it-RIGHTNOW. Like, NOW. And they turned out so yummy that they had to be blogged about ASAP. Brownies made in cast iron skillets look so inviting, as if they were welcoming you to a campfire as an alternative to s’mores. (more…)
Spring is coming! At least, Spring is showing a little leg as she sidles up to Seattle in a teasing, playful way that makes us want to throw our pasty selves at her to beg for a glimpse of her sunshine smile. (more…)